tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3461328476931561706.post5074212965194279440..comments2023-03-24T00:28:29.254-07:00Comments on For The Love of Harper: Which came first...the chicken or the egg?Rhiannonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11722893069322386523noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3461328476931561706.post-23402379463964313832010-08-05T19:22:01.932-07:002010-08-05T19:22:01.932-07:00I understand...I too was terrified after my 6wk vi...I understand...I too was terrified after my 6wk visit, I cannot imagine how fearful I would be if I got pregnant again. It's hard to imagine anyone makes it through gestation to live birth. Thinking of you!rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06480554666969330506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3461328476931561706.post-48622239282678996752010-08-05T09:27:27.936-07:002010-08-05T09:27:27.936-07:00I came across your blog through another BLM. Your ...I came across your blog through another BLM. Your sweet Harper is beautiful. I so know how you feel. We lost our son at 19 weeks and there are no answers to what caused his heart to just stop beating. Like you, you would think with all the medical advances, there could be more answers! <br /><br />It is hard when these rare things already have happened, because my doctor telling me "if this happened again, it would be like lightening striking twice in the same place," just isn't comforting. We will never have blissful worry free pregnancies again. I can only hope one day we have our babies at the end of the long 9 months. Thinking of you and look forward to following your blog.Andreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09785882007350289786noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3461328476931561706.post-29455859915260260102010-08-05T09:22:16.499-07:002010-08-05T09:22:16.499-07:00"... obstetrics is like the great abyss of no..."... obstetrics is like the great abyss of not knowing." I can get behind that statement. I'm glad the doctor made room for you to come in at a time when you wouldn't be confronted with other pregnant women. <br /><br />Making the decision to have another is so hard. Most days I think we will, but there is a lot of fear that comes along with that decision.Angelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14426410846093760653noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3461328476931561706.post-88969848693728232402010-08-05T06:30:16.022-07:002010-08-05T06:30:16.022-07:00I can relate to your story so much, I lost my daug...I can relate to your story so much, I lost my daughter at 24w6d due to PTL vs IC and I just had my 6 week postpartum check recently. Not having answers and having to face such an uncertain future is difficut that's for sure. I just found your blog on babycenter.com and look forward to following your journey. I'm just starting my blog, but have been so inspired by all you BLM's that have gotten so far with theirs.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16483071078235764202noreply@blogger.com